I came across a Reddit post where someone expressed his frustration about not being able to hang out with friends anymore. According to the post, everyone seems to be preoccupied with their own lives – one person is going through IVF, while others are focused on saving money. The person who wrote the post felt anxious because he couldn’t engage in activities like drinking or smoking with his friends due to these life circumstances. Additionally, he viewed his friends’ lives as boring because of these limitations.
But I am telling you something. Just because someone has a different life goal and sees the meaning of life differently than you do, it doesn’t mean you should be so extremely toxic.
Yes, for someone, the success of IVF would bring joy in life instead of drinking alcohol and smoking cigarettes. Someone thinks that it’s more meaningful the way you would say it.
Personally, drinking, laughing and smoking would drain my energy and I have no desire for it. I have been in such a company and my enthusiasm for life disappeared among them.
And someone can be happy even with saving 1 million HUF yes. I would be happy with 100,000 HUF.
I think the person’s post was very dark, malicious, and depressive. Reading it filled me with negative, difficult feelings. I am glad that I do not know people like him personally. What is more, I avoid them like a plague.